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WTF is Heart-Centred Joy?

by | Jun 9, 2024 | 0 comments

Most of us feel trapped in overthinking, disconnected from our bodies, overwhelmed by emotional baggage, or unsure how to create meaningful relationships. Many also struggle with expressing their sexuality in a healthy and empowered way.

Heart-Centred Joy living is a holistic approach that empowers you to reclaim joy, freedom, and authenticity by aligning five key areas of your life: mind, body, emotions, sexuality, and relationships. When these areas are in harmony, you can live authentically and experience life to the fullest, with an open heart.

The Five Key Aspects of Heart-Centred Joy:

  • Mind: Cultivating mental clarity and inner wisdom.
  • Body: Reconnecting with your physical self and embracing body wisdom.
  • Emotions: Healing past hurts and befriending vulnerability.
  • Sexuality: Embracing sexuality in an empowered and shame-free way.
  • Relationships: Building trust, love, and mutual respect in all your connections.

In this blog post, my intention is to share with you what I learned in my years of inner work and what I now call the journey of Heart-Centred Joy, and how it can support you in living a life that you love!

  1. Aligning the Mind

Our minds are usually busy with problem-solving, overthinking and worrying about things beyond our control. This mental clutter can make it hard to tune into your inner wisdom and live from a place of authenticity.
The journey of Heart-Centred Joy involves learning how to create a mental environment where discernment, clarity and ease can thrive. Learning to let go of the need for control and certainty, the mind takes a back seat, instead of being the driver of your life, and no longer controls you!

How it helps you:
When your mind is aligned, you find inner peace in the present moment. You gain the ability to navigate life’s challenges with clarity and a calm, focused mind, allowing more ease in your day-to-day life, regardless of the challenges you may be facing.

  1. Reconnecting with the Body

The body holds deep wisdom signals that lead towards optimal health, pleasure, and well-being. However, many of us are taught from a young age to ignore or suppress the body’s needs, leading to a disconnection from our inner GPS. The journey of Heart-Centred Joy helps you rebuild a loving relationship with your body by learning to listen to its signals, honoring what it is trying to tell you, and releasing any shame or negative beliefs you may hold about your physical self. The body then becomes a source of joy, grounding, and presence, helping you feel more connected to yourself, others and the world around you.

How it helps you:
When you’re in tune with your body, you feel more at ease, grounded, and at peace with yourself. This physical awareness brings a sense of strength, acceptance, and joy to your body, supporting overall well-being, regardless of your physical appearance.


  1. Healing Emotions

Emotions are powerful forces that shape how we move through the world. Yet many of us carry unprocessed pain from past hurtful experiences or are conditioned to avoid or suppress feelings like sadness, anger, or fear. In the journey of Heart-Centred Joy, healing emotional wounds is crucial to moving forward to living authentically. Instead of running from painful emotions, you learn to process and express them in healthy ways. This includes allowing yourself to be vulnerable and accepting that emotions are part of the human experience, instead of compartmentalizing them. When you heal past emotional hurts, you then reclaim your ability to feel joy, connection, and love.

How it helps you:
When you are in touch with your feelings, you can respond to life’s challenges with emotional intelligence and authenticity. Healing old wounds frees you from emotional baggage and allows you to live with openness and balance, creating space for more of what you want, and less of what you don’t!


  1. Embracing Healthy Sexuality

Sexuality is a powerful aspect of our humanity, and yet, it’s one of the most taboo topics in the world! The journey to Heart-Centred Joy teaches you to reclaim your sexuality in a way that feels authentic and empowering to you and those you engage with. This involves addressing any past sexual trauma, removing guilt or shame around your desires and preferences, and allowing yourself to experience pleasure without judgment. By embracing your sexuality, you can cultivate deep intimacy with yourself and others. The secret sauce is to embrace sexuality not as a goal-oriented activity but as an expression of your whole self, where the destination is the journey, and every moment can be orgasmic!

How it helps you:
When you embrace your sexuality, you reclaim a powerful inner source of energy, pleasure and bliss! Whether it’s in solo exploration or with a partner, embracing healthy sexuality allows you to express yourself fully, experience pleasure, and deepen your intimate relationships.


  1. Nurturing Relationships

Human beings do not thrive in isolation. Relationships are the foundation of a fulfilling life, but can also be a source of stress if not nurtured properly. The journey of Heart-Centred Joy teaches you how to cultivate relationships that are based on trust, love, and authenticity. By releasing toxic dynamics and learning to set healthy boundaries, you can create space for deeper, more meaningful connections with romantic partners, family members, friends, or colleagues.
Nurturing relationships involves showing up as your authentic self and allowing others to do the same. Healthy relationships enhance your mental, emotional and spiritual well-being and provide a support system for this journey called life.

How it helps you:
By nurturing relationships that fill up your cup, you can connect deeper, and experience life with an open heart, knowing that the people around you are a source of support, love, and mutual respect. These healthy connections cultivate emotional well-being and create a foundation for joy and meaningful interactions, both in and out of the bedroom.


The Benefits of Heart-Centred Joy Living

The journey towards Heart-Centred Joy equips you with the tools to navigate life’s challenges and empowers you to live with a sense of freedom, confidence, authenticity, and joy. By integrating these five key aspects: mind, body, emotions, sexuality, and relationships, you create a life where every part of you feels aligned, empowered, and in harmony. And when it doesn’t feel like that, you have the tools and inner resources to navigate the many challenges life unexpectedly throws at you.

Heart-Centred Joy is about making choices to live a fulfilling life that is authentically yours, full of love, acceptance, healthy boundaries, and deep connection in all areas.

When you align these five key aspects, you open yourself up to a life of deeper joy, freedom, and fulfillment, where your heart guides the way.

To wrap up this blog post, I invite you to take a moment to reflect on which of the 5 areas of your life feels the most out of balance. Where could you use more alignment and support?
Feel free to comment below and/or explore the other posts on this blog to dive deeper into each of these areas, so that you can bring yourself closer to your version of Heart-Centred Joy living.

About Bia Bliss

Bia Bliss is a Somatic Sexologist, Embodied Counsellor, Aletheia Coach and student of life. Bia helps individuals achieve personal empowerment, deeper intimacy, and a harmonious balance between mind and body through holistic practices that integrates science and spirituality, so that they can experience authentic joy and fulfilment, in AND out of the bedroom!

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Let go of misconceptions and allow yourself to experience the harmonious balance between mind, body, and spirit, so that you can live a life of Heart-Centred Joy!

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